My eyes were shooting darts across the room at someone whom shall remain nameless, as I thought to myself, ” I do all the work around here!”
But my self-righteous attitude was brought down to reality by a small, quiet whisper from within. And the truth stung a little bit.
I barely keep my head above water, often letting things go around the house: things like laundry, dinner and cleaning.
People start to notice when there’s no clean underwear, or we have “rummage night” for dinner more often than not.
But, I don’t think that’s what they mean by Let Go, and Let God. 😉
I kept consoling myself with thoughts like, “It’s not the clean dishes that matter,” or “My family just wants my presence,” and “They don’t mind the ring around the toilet.”
But, I wasn’t fooling anyone. So, I set out to get organized….again.
I have decided that the number one key to organization is self-discipline.
All the planners and calendars and binders and to-do lists in the world won’t do the organizing for me. I have to do it. I have to use the tools put in my hands…and stick with it.
The other realization that I had recently, while shopping the produce aisle at Walmart, is this: If I want my family to join me on my quest, I have to model it.
Once they see me consistently keeping up with my household responsibilities, it will instill in them a sense of pride and ownership in this home. They in turn, will want to take responsibility in maintaining a clean, organized home.
~I wrote those words almost a week ago. Just returning to the simple task of keeping a to-do list has helped tremendously. (And I get a natural high from crossing stuff off of the list.)
The biggest reward is the thanks and appreciation I get from my family. They, after all, are my inspiration.
For more tips on home organization, visit me at
www.mrshinesclass.com
or connect with me on
Facebook Twitter Pinterest Google + Youtube
Sharon
I’m sharing my tip at the Tutorials & Tips Link Party at Home Stories A to Z
Good words of advice Sharon! Hope you have a nice day!~~Angela
Angela recently posted…What is THAT?! – A Home Goods find!
Great advice Sharon…I certainly need to get better about this! ~Tammy
Tammy Killough recently posted…Thinking Outside the Flower Pot
I totally agree. I have also found that once the discipline is established for one area, it becomes much easier to work on those other areas that need improving. Thanks for a great post!
This is timely – I have just been realizing how messy rooms can get in a blink of an eye if you aren’t disciplined. Thanks for the pep-talk. I think I need to go clean something now. ~Mary
BetterOutdoorLivingatHome recently posted…Japanese Anemone ‘Honorine Jobert’ – A Perennial A Week
I’m so glad this was a timely post for you. Anytime, on the pep talk!
Oh Sharon, this is a wonderful post. I love your opening phrase, “my eyes were shooting darts across the room.” You’re a good writer!!
Thank you, Jennifer. Hearing someone compliment me as a writer is one of the highest compliments I can get!